To The Real Hero
September 2nd, 2010I have a friend who is a hero. A real hero. He and his wife have a son that is mentally ill. His son is paranoid schizophrenic, which for those who don’t understand mental illness is one of the most serious diseases. It is marked by hearing voices, thinking the CIA is after you, all of that and much more.
They have stuck by this young man, who is in his twenties, and continue to assist him in all they ways they can.
They had tried to get him into a state funded institution, but could not. Then after he was jailed for something very minor, the judge ordered him into the institution for treatment.
These are the real hero’s in our midst.
I know I have ranted a little about how American’s treat their mentally ill. If their son had a heart condition or diabetes all of their friends and associates would be very kind and loving. When a family member is mentally ill many people just don’t want to hear about it.
Glenn Close has family members with this disease and she has started an organization called Bring Change 2 Mind, that is advocating for changing how we all feel and treat those with a disease.
Did you know that 1 in 6 adults has some form of mental illness? That is unreal.
I also believe that millions of people who are suffering from depression go untreated because of the gross stigma that goes along with this.
I think I have shared with you that my adoptive sister had fetal alcohol syndrome and developed schizophrenia, at the time, which was the late 50’s and early 60’s, my parents were not given any reasonable support. And they really didn’t understand what they were dealing with at any level.
My sister’s behavior became so bad that she had to be institutionalized.
It was a family tragedy.
Today I believe there is more awareness, more resources, and more tolerance. But I can assure you that there is not the level of compassion that these patients and their families need.
What can you do?
Two things, first and foremost, if you know anyone dealing with a family member with these issues, reach out. Take them for a cup of coffee and ask them about what they are dealing with, sometimes what the family needs more than anything, is a safe place to talk about it.
Get educated, and if you can, volunteer to help in these institutions with are grossly understaffed.
The real hero’s out there are the family of these poor people who are dealing with this disease. They are on the front lines, and those family that don’t walk or run away from their loved ones are the biggest hero’s of all.